Race riot in Detroit, 1967 |
The late sixties were seminal years in the US that had an impact
on most of the Western world. Though I
was busy working and taking care of my kids, I was quite aware of what was
going on. We didn’t have a TV, but
newspaper headlines, the alternative press, and radio news commentators screamed. It was hard not to be informed. In the summer of 1967 race riots broke out in Chicago,
Brooklyn, Cleveland, Baltimore, Newark and Detroit; over three dozen people were
killed. 35,000 anti-war protesters
showed up at the Pentagon with over 600 arrests.
That same year, the Summer of Love launched in San Francisco. (See photo below, taken in Golden Gate Park.) Independent media encouraged people to come
here and enjoy absolute freedom. And
thousands did, singing the Mamas & The Papas song ( a group from LA).“When You Come to San
Francisco, Wear Flowers in Your Hair.”
Summer of Love |
A Mime Troupe early poster, 1967 |
The people in my office rarely went out for lunch. I asked the few who did if they saw the Mime Troupe on their flat-bed truck. “No, but I heard all this noise. I thought mimes didn’t talk.” "What was going on?" some asked. When I told them, they shuddered and said they were glad they missed it. Timothy Leary had it all backward, I thought- with his mantra: “Tune in, turn on, drop out." He felt people should drop out into what was called the counter-culture. But to me, the people who dropped out seemed to be office workers. The clueless- ignorant of major changes occurring in culture, the war in Vietnam, free speech, and civil rights in the late '60s. These were not popular water cooler topics.
Martin Luther King, Jr. |
Once in a while, I had to go to the
understaffed Marine underwriters’ department on the 7th floor to get coverage information. I talked to the supervisor, Jack
Weinberg, an engaging, stocky, swarthy man who
reminded me of the actor Rod Steiger whose films “The Illustrated Man” and
“Dr. Zhivago” had just been in theatres. Jack
dressed nattily in expensive, three-piece suits and colorful ties, and pastel
or striped shirts with white collar and cuffs, setting him apart from the rest
of the drones. Often, to relieve
the boredom of my department, I would invent an excuse to go to his office
where we’d chat and laugh about work, the hoops you were
expected to jump through to get anything done, or just dish about co-workers. One Friday night, I met Gene at a bar on Castro (Eureka Valley was rapidly evolving into the gay
Mecca it is today) a few blocks from my place. Jack walked in through the crowd. I had to look twice; Gene glanced at him, touched my shoulder and winked. Jack was wearing a
moss-colored, one-piece hot-pants outfit.
He looked at me. His eyes widened and his mouth opened. Then he grinned and put his finger to his lips. I responded with the zipped lip gesture. Like Gene, Jack would not have set
off anyone’s “gaydar,” even in gay bars. Much later, as the crowd got nosier, Gene left with Frankie. Jack approached me. He’d had more than a few drinks.
“I
wanna make you a proposition,” he said, setting his drink on the bar and lighting up a cigarette.
“A what?”
I laughed.
“I’m
serious,” he said.
“Okay,
what?”
“Look ,
hon, I have to go to the Juneau office for a few days to check out a new client.”
“Okay .
. .”
“I need a woman to accompany me as
a foil. I was wondering if you’d like to
go.” I didn’t say anything, but a
thought flashed through my mind: what on earth do I have to wear to Alaska? As though reading my mind, Jack went on, “I’ll have a huge expense
account, so I can buy you whatever you need: fur coat, boots, a cocktail dress
for the reception, shoes, anything. So
don’t worry.”
“When?”
“The
date hasn’t been set yet. You'd be perfect. I can't think of anyone I'd rather have accompany me.”
“Good, wonderful,
because I’d love to go. I’ve always
wanted to go to Alaska. It’ll be
fun."
"I’ll let you know," he added. "You have some time to think about it." I pictured myself in a gorgeous hooded fur and great-looking boots. I would have to tell Lynn and make sure he was okay with taking care of the kids.
"I’ll let you know," he added. "You have some time to think about it." I pictured myself in a gorgeous hooded fur and great-looking boots. I would have to tell Lynn and make sure he was okay with taking care of the kids.
Robert Kennedy after he was shot. |
The MUZAK logo. |
The morning after Robert Kennedy’s assassination, I stepped into the elevator at work to the strains of “Everything’s Coming Up Roses!” walked to my desk to “Put on a Happy Face!” I was livid. I put my purse away, hung up my coat, and marched into the building engineer’s room, which, ironically, was MUZAK free. The engineer was sitting at his desk with his back to me, reading The Chronicle. I’d never met the guy. I said, “Turn that crap off! Don’t you have any sensitivity about what just happened? Robert Kennedy was shot dead last night and you’re playing that? Please, turn it off now!” I didn’t wait for his response. Soon as I closed the door behind me, I heard “S’Wonderful” cut off in mid-phrase. Later, a co-worker looked up from her desk and said, “Gee, it’s quiet in here. What happened to the music?” “Thank God,” someone responded. “I can’t stand that shit.” The quiet lasted only a couple of days. (The impact of Kennedy's assassination had more of an effect on the general public than King's as it was shown live on TV.)
Back to Jack and Alaska: I had to talk to him about marine coverage a
few times, but he never again mentioned the Alaska trip. I figured he’d had a lot to drink that
night and regretted asking me. Somehow, I knew not to bring it up. Actually,
I was relieved. The last thing I wanted was to spend time with a bunch of drunk insurance men and their hair-sprayed wives and/or mistresses in a remote place like Juneau where I couldn't just hop on my bike or catch a bus home. Those business junkets wind-up as drunken orgies, anyway. And, I’ve never been away
from my kids for too long and didn’t feel comfortable leaving them in Lynn’s
care.
Cops beating protesters at the Convention. |
NEXT: Part Five ends
Chapter 8: Against the backdrop of the conviction and sentencing of the killers of
Martin Luther King, Jr. and Robert Kennedy, the Black Panthers vs. police, and
hippies attacked by National Guard; the Branch Manager
opens a telegram addressed to me from Time Magazine. And men on the moon; Woodstock, Altamont,
Stonewall riots, the end of segregation; head honchos arrive from the main office in New York and wreak
havoc on many of us. I’m on my way out. Again.
My choice. And
more.